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Dorothy Dandridge | Fashion Crush: Black History Month Edition ♡

Miss Dandridge I Love Your Style

In honor of Black History Month I would like to take the time to recognize an African American Women every week this month to pay homage to the women who had to fight before me. As philosopher Bernard of Charles said, " If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants." Nothing in this world in truly ours so it is important to pay respects to the giants who have cleared and paved the way for you. 

The Life. The Legacy.


An American Actress born November 9, 1922 was an icon for being a noteworthy African American performer. Her early beginnings consisted of her and her sister, Vivian, touring much of Southern America performing a song-and-dance act created by their mother Ruby. Throughout her years of filmography she was very much noted as being stunningly beautiful.

With a total of  37 known movies, 23 known songs, and countless night club performances she was an inspiration for many minority girls and women that there was hope. Her most noteworthy work is for her role in Carmen Jones where she became the first African American to be nominated for an Academy Award. 


In the Black community she has been deemed "our Marilyn Monroe." Meaning the black Marilyn Monroe. There are plenty of articles that debate the two beauties but needless to say Dandridge was very much so under appreciated, which is to be expected considering her skin tone. During the time that the great Dorothy Dandridge was alive was very much a time were black lives didn't matter and it was seemingly okay. God bless her soul for being so strong and courageous during that time were our country really didn't fight for us. 

There are many actresses and celebrities that pay homage and credit her works as their inspiration including Halle Berry who produced and starred in a feature film in her honor entitles Introductong Dorothy Dandridge. She was a style icon, role model, and a positive force within the entertainment industry during that time. 

Style Influence 

She was known for her slim but shapely figure, smooth voice and sweet smile. She was fun, playful, energetic, and sexy without being a complete sexual figure. I have so much respect for a woman of this caliber to be classy and conservative. In today's day and age you almost can't get a movie role without nudity. Though the times now and then are vastly different I hope that somewhere down the line wearing clothes and preserving your sexy comes back in style. 



This is Dorothy Dandridge.
Dorothy was an African American entertainer during the 40-60's.
Dorothy was sexy and keep it classy.
Dorothy is best known for her feature in Carmen Jones.
Dorothy made waves.
Be like Dorothy.

*All of these images do not belong to me. They were not created by me nor meant to be assumed that they were taken by me. The images belong to the respective websites that were linked above.*

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Lai Deshay

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This Weeks Fashion Crush: Kourtney Kardashian

This episode of Ellen airs Monday January 25, 2016.

HUUNNY! HUNNY! HUNNYYY!!!

Kourtney Kardashian looks beyond stunning in her Lavin metallic blazer and short set. She first debuted this look on instagram earlier this week with no details of who the designer was so yah girl had to go on the hunt. 

A photo posted by Kourtney Kardashian (@kourtneykardash) on


I actually am not a fan pursue of the Kardashian-Jenner family but when she popped up on my auto play on Youtube in that Blazer I instantly became fan-girling... over the blazer. She explained to Ellen that Kylie had gotten it for her for Christmas but it was actually her mom Kris who picked it out (Props to Mama Bear Jenner).

So after some intense Googling I finally found it, the Blazer and Short set from Lavin. [I think it might have been love at first sight... maybe even lust at first sight ;)]


Coming in at a whopping $3,198.83 I think that I can safely say that this will be a distant dream of mine... The come up is coming but uh yeah its not that close yet. But if any of you want to donate $3,400 (taxes and shipping y'all come on) I will gladly take it and pay off these loans. Your girl has priorities lol. 

Now these shorts I'm on the fence about. All I can imagine is chaffing, scratching, and itching but hey, they do say there if there is no risk there is no reward. I think I might be willing to take that risk because it would be an oh so sweet reward. Just take a second and imagine how it would look on all this beautiful brown skin. I'm feeling it lol. They are still a pretty penny though coming in at $1,271.94


Now looking at the texture shot I'm not sure, it might be chaffing, itching, and scratching free. 


The Look For Less.


So this is the best I could do to find that blazer for not $3000+ its actually really reasonable, its on sale for $31.99. I can work with that. 











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Lai Deshay

Edgy Floral with Heart Shaped Sunglasses OOTD| Spring/Summer 2015 ♡


Fashionista Friday !


Oh, hello thin leather in the sun! This is a fun outfit that I wore that was appropriate and semi appropriate for all the events that I went to this particular weekend. It was my outfit for a commissioning ceremony but my hair was just down and the glasses weren't on. I went to a first birthday party for the cutest little twins, then I went to the fair. 

That was a very eventful day. I wish my whole life could be as eventful as that one day was. Do tell me if there is a profession where they will pay me to travel the world and document it? I'm down for new adventures in a crazy busy life. Someone help me find my life's passion! 

But I got to see my bestest friend Briana and spent the day with my other BFFL Erin. So all-in-all it was such a fun filled time. Outfit details below!


A photo posted by Boss Lai D🌻 (@laideshay) on
















Outfit Details:


Dress: Loft
Flower Crown: Pacific Sunwear
Shoes: Steve Madden
Sunnies: Pacific Sunwear
Necklace: Charming Charlie 
Hair: Finger Comber https://youtu.be/Jp4KdwR8aeE


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Fall-Winter 2015 OOTD | Peacoats and Booties ♡


Navy Blue-z


Hey love muffins !


Today I have for you an outfit of the day for fall or winter. If you know me, you know I'm OBSESSED with navy blue. I want baby blue everything. Shoes, shirts, pants, (still looking for the perfect navy purse), even undies. Umm... writing it out makes me think need to talk to someone about my obsession. NAH! I'll be alright. 

I decided to keep the outfit simple but cute. This look could be a date night outfit, a girls day (or night depending of the location) outfit, it could even be a dinner and a movie outfit. 

I love how the shirt has a hint of peach at the bottom which I think compliments my skin tone pretty well. 

I'd like to think my lovely photographer Erin aka bff for all my pictures. 



Outfit Details: 

  • Shirt-American Eagle 
  • Pants-Kuwait (gift from daddy) 
  • Peacoat & Booties-Old Navy 
  • Bag-Kate Spade New York
  • Headband-click HERE (http://afashionistasbabydoll.blogspot.com/2014/07/diy-flower-headband-or-crown-made-easy.html) for the tutorial

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What is your FAVORITE color to wear?

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Lai Deshay

How to Dress up a Sweater| OOTO♡


Outfit of the Occasion 


Hey Dollies, So I decided that I was going to give you guys some outfit details on this outfit I wore a couple weeks ago. I got tons of compliments on this sweater so I figured I would share it with my Dollies! 

Outfit:

Below each picture I give you where I found each of the items. The shoes which are not pictured where from Cato's a simply black bootie.
This snug leather jacket is from Zara

Makeup:

I did a very very simple look just foundation, some concealer to highlight, a little blush and some mascara. I wanted to be really simplistic since I was going to a semi professional event.

This GORGEOUS sweater is from Uptown Cheapskates
sorry dollies I don't remember who its by.

 Hair:

Funny story on the hair actually. My weave was looking SOOO ratchet, we'll talk about that later, so I had to put it up somehow. So I put my hair in a side ponytail near the base of my neck. I then split the pony into two ponies and three strand braided them. After I did that wrapped them around the base of my ponytail holder to create a bun.

With the hair in the front that didn't quite make it to the pony tail I simply laid them down and created a curl with bobby pins. I wish I could show you what I did but that angle wasn't working for me that night.

Even though my weave was awful my hair turned out looking great for the occasion (and these pictures), which was all that really mattered.
Slacks from Express

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What is your go to fall fashion item? Mine is cardigans, I live and breathe for them!

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Lai Deshay

Style Inspiration for Fall | Fashion Haul ♡

Hello my Lovies!


Well today I have a video that I filmed about a month ago and just now got the chance to edit it. It has been a rough semester guys, but I'm almost at the finish line. So in this video I am just showing you some of my new fall and winter pieces. They are very simplistic, sophisticated, chic, and super cute. But you know thats just my totally, completely, unbiased opinion of course.

So I sharing a little back story on some of my purchases which you know I love a good back story. Every video I make is like 30-40 minutes unedited footage because I don't know when to SHUT UP. Which is also in a losing combination with my no sense of time. So yeah there you have it, an explanation for a 12 minute video (which I think you'll love if you're into that kinda thing).

*Side Bar*
Does anyone know where I can find a new layout for my blog, in desperate need of a new one? I'm so over the flower child  girl. You know the saying, "You know a women is going through changes when she changes her hair?" Well the same goes for me except with my blog. Shorty needs to be revamped because she is old and dingy looking. Maybe not but that's, once again, just my opinion.


Any who I hope you enjoy this video and I really hope to see you in my subscribers list :).



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Lai Deshay

2 Fall Cardigan and Boot OOTD + Styling Tips !♡

Fall into Fashion

Ehh. What a cliche ?! But fall is one of my very favorite seasons for two main reasons. One being my birthday (October 22- I'll be 21 next week wooo), and the other would be for my deep deep love for cardigans and cute boots and booties!

So like every fall I destroy the Internet looking for fall fashion inspiration, but this year was a little different. I decided NOT to look for style/styling information and just go with my own style and give my own fashion inspiration for you guys. I decided to instead further develop my unique sense of style rather than just conforming and trying to fit in. But first let me explain my style to you. 

I am a very low maintance type of girl. I usually take 10-20 in the morning to get ready (depending on if I will shower in the morning or did at night). So to read in between the lines, I choose more sleep over cute outfits pretty much everyday of the week. Just being honest. So I call them the three struggles of getting ready, so in the morning I pic a struggle. Whether to do my hair, wear make up, or wear an cute outfit. Because in the short time I give my self each morning I can't do it all. Although you may think it and I may wish and dream it, but I am not actually Wonder Woman. Sorry for the let down. 

I am despite what people think of me am very minimalistic. However I do it in an ultra chic way. Well I think so anyway. I only stretch for all three on the weekend when I actually see people, which is where the nonbelief is steamed. 


So what you've all been waiting for outfit details !!!

Striped Shirt Outfit
Stripped Shirt with Teal Trim -LC by Lauren Conrad
Hollister Jeans-Legging Fit
Brown boots from Rue 21

My styling tips:

*When your outfit is so simple like mine I quite often like to add a cool hair style to complement it. Here I simply sectioned off all the hair across the front of my head and did a two strand flat twist. I secured the twist behind my ear with two bobby pins, wavy side down, and put the rest in a messy bun. 

Make up in minimal. BB cream, concealer, blush and Mascara. Took all of 3.5 minutes. 

Oversized Cardigan Outfit 
Lauren by Ralph Lauren Jean polo 
Very J oversized cardigan 
Forever 21 Jeans
Brown boots from Rue 21
Belt Vintage-From my late Grandmother

My styling tips:

When wearing items that can be oversized I like to add a belt to help define some sort of shape so you don't just look like you're hiding in a huge fat man sweater. (Not that there's anything wrong with fat men. They are kinda cool, and squishy like a teddy bear and silly puddy. Sorry, tangent.)

Wearing your hair (or weave) down gives you some more breaking up of your body and gives a more carefree look. 

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Lai

OOTD Pink Dress and Sheet Rose Floral Top♡ | #FashionistaFriday

#FashionistaFriday




So today on #FashionistaFriday I have a look for you which happens to also be a #FlashbackFriday of this OOTD (outfit of the day). Just using as many hashtags as I can today obviously. I posted the top half of this look on my Instagram, you should go follow! Enough of that on to the blog stuff you came to see..

The bodycon dress is from pink from a Victoria's Secret semi annual sale many years ago. 

The black and pick floral top I got from TJ Maxx over the summer. 

The gold bow belt to tie me together was from Forever 21. 

One thing about me is that I looovvveeee a good flowy top. I just feel free in loose tops.

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What's your go to fashion look?

Be sure to shoot me an email, HeyAskLai@gmail.com or leave a comment with your answer!

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xoxo,

Lai

#FashionistasFriday:Three Ways To Style BoyFriend Jeans

#FashionistasFriday:Three Ways To Style BoyFriend Jeans


Crop top
moreislove.com


Stussy top
stussy.com


VILA long sleeve shirt
$67 - vila.com


H&M low rise jeans
$50 - hm.com


Giuseppe Zanotti pumps
giuseppezanottidesign.com


Converse shoes
nastygal.com



Moschino crossbody handbag
$1,330 - selfridges.com


MICHAEL Michael Kors shoulder bag
$510 - luisaviaroma.com


Pieces mesh backpack
$54 - pieces.com


Chanel bracelet
1stdibs.com


Olivia Burton gold watch
$125 - the-dressingroom.com


Accessorize gold bracelet
accessorize.com


Lip gloss makeup
toofaced.com


Lipstick
nyxcosmetics.com


NYX lipstick
gojane.com



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